Are You Too Embarrassed to Try Online Dating?

Are You Too Embarrassed to Try Online Dating? Many people still question or are embarrassed by online dating.  However if […]

Are You Too Embarrassed to Try Online Dating?

Many people still question or are embarrassed by online dating.  However if your goal is to find a date, a relationship, or you’re looking to get married you need to use every option and resource available.  You won’t be thinking about being embarrassed after you find your perfect match online.  And if it doesn’t work out you have gained some knowledge about yourself and the dating world to increase your relationship chances elsewhere.  A win-win if you ask me.

Shying away from online dating and dating apps severely limits your choices.  Think about it, where are you going to find 1,000s of single people in one place looking for a date elsewhere than online dating?  And what does it take to text someone an ice breaker message…30 seconds?  Investing just 5 minutes of your day using a dating site or dating app is worthwhile because it improves your chances, without much investment, of the relationship you always wanted.  If you don’t have 5 extra minutes a day to connect with other singles online you are just too busy to date.

For optimum success with online dating you first need to figure out your purpose for dating and your future.  Make a list of all the things you want out of dating and a relationship.  They can be as small as “daily affection” or as large as a “4-story house.”  It is your list so write whatever comes to mind.  Then go through each item and organize them into two lists: must-haves and would-likes.  First focusing on the must-haves, go through each item on each list and ask yourself “what personality would be best to achieve….”

For example, you are a female and a must-have for you are kids so list all the traits of a good father.  Look for and interact with guys with those traits and don’t waste time with the hot guy with none of those traits no matter how attractive you find them.

At this stage of the game, measure your next actions against your desired results.  Future you will thank you for it.